In preparing for this,
I asked family members and several of Jamie’s close friends to
try to put in words what Jamie meant to all of us. However, every time
we tried to define something specific it always led to another hilarious
story that demonstrated Jamie’s character.
Jamie had a unique perspective on life that
touched us all. He was able to find humor in virtually every situation.
Although some stories cannot be mentioned here today, I would like to
share some of them with you and let Jamie touch you once again.
Jamie was a son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin
and most of all a friend. His personality can be described with many
adjectives: he was witty….he always had a comment about any situation;
he was generous….he was always there to help no matter what or
who the situation; he was a perfectionist which showed in everything
he did and he was wise beyond his years. But occasionally you would
swear he was having a blonde moment. But if one word could describe
Jamie’s personality, it would have been stubborn!!.
An example of this is the Santa Clause story.
This occurred when Jamie and Danielle Alix were no more than five or
six. They were walking along one July afternoon when the conversation
turned to Santa Claus and they decided that they should go see Santa
Claus, who for some reason, happened to be in Coderre. Perhaps he was
doing some early Christmas Shopping. Jamie decided that they were going
and proceeded to take Emile’s little Toyota truck. However he
mistook ‘R’ for ‘D’ and back in to the fuel
tanks. Danielle ran in the trailer and made sure the Vicki new it was
Jamie and not her that had instigated this plan.
As a child, Vicki has to ensure that none of
the food on Jamie’s plate touched, and that the peanut butter
on this toast did not touch the crust or he would literally have a fit.
As he got older his eating habits changed but they did not lessen. Jamie
would eat just about anything, from fried poplar leaf sandwiches, fighting
the dog for the occasional Gaines burger or ‘baker’s chocolate,’
better known as EXLAX!!!! Providing of course there was always a lot
of ketchup!!!!
Although school was not Jamie’s first
love and showed every morning with the fight to get him there he none
the less overcame this and went on to excel at program of autobody repair
at SIAST in Moose Jaw.
In case any of you are wondering where Jamie’s
love of mechanics and machines (especially fast one!) came from, it
started at an early age. Jamie and Jason had a plastic toy tractor that
they used to pedal around the shop. One day Emile was fixing his tractor
in the shop and in order to do this he literally had to split the tractor
apart. Of course Jamie was there to watch him do it. The next day when
Emile came home from town he found the toy tractor in the middle of
the shop with a hacksaw buried ¾ of the way through it as Jamie
and Jason were attempting their own repairs!!
From tractors, Jamie and Jason moved on to plastic
motorcycles and virtually wore the wheels off by racing around the trailer.
This must be where his love of racing started. Jamie never feared taking
risks—be it from Jason pushing him in his stroller and landing
face first on the shop floor, rolling down a hill in a culvert or simply
turning the dryer on fluff and jumping in for fun!!! This need for risk
lead him to build a 100’ triple jump at the local motocross track
at Coderre, which he just completed but unfortunately did not get a
chance to try.
When Jamie started something, he never did it
half way! He put his heart and soul into it! This was apparent in his
racing, his work and his night life…. And let me tell you HE HAD
A NIGHT LIFE!!
Unless of course his uncles were switching his beverages.
A special memory for me is how Jamie got his
nick name Zuggie! When Jamie was first learning to talk he would come
up to me when I was visiting and say: ‘Zuggie come and play, Zuggie
come and play!’ We finally realized that this was his way of saying
Kelly and it slowly got turned around so he was now called Zuggie.
In preparing for this, each of you had a special story about Jamie but
unfortunately today we don’t have time to cover all of them but
I ask that you cherish and share these stories so that Jamie will continue
to bringing a smile to our faces. There is however one more story that
I would like to share with you at this time. It was written by Kris
Clappison who is a very close friend of Jason and Jamie’s and
who was like another son to Vicki. I think this shows how Vicki and
Jamie touched so many people.
My deepest regrets to Jason
and Emile….I love you both. I would like to talk about Jamie and
Vicki for a minute. Jamie was always the kind of guy who would do anything
for anyone because he was all heart. He loved motorbikes or anything
with wheels. He was an excellent friend and fun to be around and I will
miss him greatly.
Vicki…she was a loving caring and sharing person just like Jamie.
I never knew her to lose her temper and was always there for her family
and friends. She always welcomed anyone whether it was just on or the
entire town of Coderre; everyone was welcomed with open arms. I love
you Jamie as a friend as well as a brother. Vicki as a friend as well
as a mother because they all made me feel like I was one of them from
the beginning to the end. You both will never be forgotten.
I love you all. Kris.
At times like these your perspective changes
and you find symbolism in many things. As I stood on the deck at Emile’s
Thursday night a meteorite passed overhead and I realized that is Jamie….A
SHOOTING STAR! He lived his life by this motto….”It is better
to burn out than fade away!”
Kelly Richmond